Friday, November 30, 2007

Ye World hain na world is mein do tarah ke log hote hain....

Ye World hain na world is mein do tarah ke log hote hain....

This dialogue from one of bollywood movies is one of the dialogue came to my mind when I thought to write on something. How much of it is true. Let me put my opinion, yes there are different people around us, may be two types is not enough type. May be its said that each 10 kilometer taste of water changes, each 100 kilometer the language changes, but how long does it take to change the person. What ever it may be but to my experience I came across 2 wonderful relationships.

Relationship one was a relation of hate vs love. This guy loved the girl too much and he did many crazy things. One night I was watching the movie, he called me out and said me, and I want to fracture my hand. Why? He had gone to meet the girl and but the meeting didn’t went well and thus he wanted to hurt himself. I had no answer, why he wanted to do that but I came to know in later part that it was a feeling for her, a deep feeling which hurt this guy and he wanted this hurt to come out. I had to tackle such many situations, but final call was like happy ending. That girl accepted the guy's proposal. And they are having a time of their life. Such a beautiful story that I can’t put in 5-10 lines. But believe it was one of the best things that can happened to me, to be associated with those two persons.

Relationship two is like, two poles of magnet. They are together but never attracted. Even if one pole tries to pull in other one together, that person will not. Second person feels happy about the craziness of person one, she talks about this poor guy in the gossips, she talks about this guy in the fun, she even talked to me and that guy unaware of it. But as time passed that guy came to know, but instead of saying anything, he developed a bridge between his feelings and his love. He loved the girl but didn’t want to become a joke. He might already to some but that’s what he was not caring for. I had chance to share a ride with him, and even a chance to talk to him on this. He was calm like water, and he asked me, Sunil, what do you think, I had lost? I said, "nothing". He said, "exactly". I loved the girl and I do love the girl now also. But only difference is I could have loved to stay with her initially. But the changes, attitude of her doesn’t make a difference to me. Today also I love her, may be more than before, but I just that if now if she comes, I will walk the aisle. I love her but I don’t want myself to be a joke. He left on this note. Keeping me thinking... Who is gaining for this fight? The Guy or the Gal? Guy was anyways without girl but he loved her too much. Girl, she is still alone but now guy loves her in a way where he can die for her but not with her. Now he does not want her to be at his side... A strange feeling growing in me.... Even Girl is not aware of her feeling towards this guy, Lust or love? Not any idea, as she told me. But one thing, she likes the guy's company but she also told me strange behavior of the guy now a days. She is worried and asked me why that guy is behaving strange now days? She is upset, guy is broke down...I will try to patch up the things... Let’s see what level I succeed. I will keep it posted…

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